How to Have a Threesome For the First Time?

Having your first threesome can either be a big cause of excitement or a big cause of apprehension. A lot of first-timers find it hard to initiate a threesome and even more difficult to ask others question on how to have a threesome. It becomes a bothersome issue once you let it go to your head.

For many people, having a threesome is like venturing into a world of taboos where people will judge you for the actions that you do but once you give it thought or two, we still get judged no matter what we do. First-timers may be thinking of a few things and may even think twice before engaging in a threesome. So in order to ease those who are yet to try having a threesome, here are a few things for you tenderfeet!

Don't pretend to be all-knowing

You might be thinking that pretending that you've done threesome sessions before will make you look more confident but remember that doing it with someone familiar with threesomes will only make you look like a dunce. Admit to yourself that is your first time and also admit to your partner when asked. Chances are they would be more than willing to help you out should there be a blunder along the way. Besides, others find it interesting to have threesomes with first-timers. Kinky!

Clean thoroughly

A good rule to consider on how to have a threesome, as is with most rules before having sex, is to have a good shower and to clean you all over. Having a shower before bathing shows you are responsible and take your partners' well-being into consideration. In the first place, not everyone is into dirty sex. Cleaning thoroughly also means less risk in acquiring excessive amounts of bacteria once you start with the threesome sessions. Smelling fresh will also set the mood for fun, fun, fun sex.

Prepare by educating yourself

Although it is neither strongly advised nor important, watching videos can make a considerable difference in your performance. Just about everybody has his own lovemaking methods and picking up techniques from videos showcasing threesome sex can help you improve your skills. It doesn’t hurt knowing your destination before getting there.

Know the basic things that you'd need and make sure your questions on how to have a threesome are answered before engaging in once. Preparing beforehand allows you to measure up to your partners and shows that you know how to be in command should there be a need to do so. Usually, preparing for sexual activates also shows that you are responsible and a good partner consider for future threesome sessions. If you are a man or at least once that serves the role of one in, make sure you clean up well and bring the necessary contraceptives, and lube. If you are performing the role of a woman or the bottom, might as well clean up as well and if you have other preventive practices yourself, do them before having sex.

Respect

Take note that although you are to engage in sex with two other sexually active individuals you are still expected to behave accordingly. Failing to notice signs from your parents tell a lot about your personality and can affect the overall experience. Perhaps you will further need to be educated on how to have a threesome before engaging in more of them. Remember that your partners also have their own limitations and dislikes.